A friend of mine wrote this and i coudnt agree more to it. Relationship needs alot of dedication and sacrifices and if one party is not willing to do so then it is pointless to go on in building one..

Finding a girlfriend, He concluded, is just like buying a value meal at a fast food joint. its about what you can afford, what you prefer, and what is on offer, taking into consideration the first two points.

when you buy a value meal, you dont just get the burger. you get the fries and drinks. you dont just look at the burger alone, you get the whole deal because it satisfies you. the fries and drinks, without it, would not constitute a meal. just like a girlfriend.

on top of that, there are other options to note. whether you want it upsized or not. to have it there or take away.

when you get a girlfriend, you dont just get the girl. you get the personality and the looks. you dont just look at the girl alone, you get the whole deal because it satisfies you physically and emotionally.

without the other components, she wouldnt be in a relationship. she'd just be a friend. on top of that, there are options to note. whether you want to take the extra effort (to upsize) or not. and finally, whether you want to look at it as a short term thing or take her home to meet mom and dad. (make them part of your everyday life)